RELATED: The 4 mistakes that cost this man his marriage Watch out for men who spend money frivolously.I had a woman tell me how flattered she was when her boyfriend booked her a posh hotel room, filled it from corner to corner with freshly cut roses, and had an expensive dress lying across the bed just as a surprise to show her how much he cared about her.As it happens, though, dishonesty is simply part of human nature.Like I said, you can't run from it, so you might as well embrace it and try your best to stay one step ahead of it.Too many women sell themselves short by settling for a man with an attractive exterior.A man who is overly concerned with himself and his material things has no room to value you. Just because a man is good-looking, wears a shiny new suit, sports some Now and Later gators, drives a shiny new car, and profiles a new Rolex on his wrist does not mean he is a good man. If there were, trust me, I'd find the nearest one ASAP.
When you’re in a relationship with a guy, it’s pretty easy to determine his baseline. However, keep your guy’s baseline in mind: If he has a habit of rubbing his nose all the time or is a fidgety person by nature, then those things may not be signs of lying for him. “Some people who are skilled liars will practice or rehearse their lies, but they don’t remember them back to front,” Wanis explains.
Catching someone in a lie is much more difficult and requires a lot more than being able to tell whether or not his eye just twitched. We spoke with relationship experts and discovered a few strategies to help you tell if he’s being less than truthful. Establish his “baseline” In the heat of the moment, we may be very focused on figuring out, “Is this guy lying to me?
” But before we can determine that, we have to know how he usually responds. Assess his body language While refusing to make eye contact might not be a dead giveaway that your guy is lying, there are a few signs that should raise your suspicion. Touching the nose can mean, ‘Even I’m disgusted with what I just said.’” Be on the lookout for any other behaviors that are unusual or unnatural for your guy, such as fidgeting, running his hands through his hair, tapping his fingers or kicking his legs about.
As a matter of fact, that’s usually the joker who can’t rub two nickels together.
What’s wrong with the guy in jeans and a T-shirt, driving a Camry, checking his Timex to see exactly when his check is going to hit the bank? Never allow yourself to be impressed by a man’s depreciating assets (cars, clothes, expensive rental apartment). If you’re going to be impressed with material things, at least be smart enough to start with his net worth.