Even with the pressures of the first date, overcoming small talk, and sorting through the endless sea of noncompatible matches, dating should be a fun experience.
The best way to attract somebody that you truly dig is by showing your true colors upfront.
A cliffhanger builds intrigue — he'll be dying to know what you're thinking.
For example, if he's wearing a costume in one of his pics, say, "That Buzz Lightyear costume.…" When he responds by saying, "What about it?
The goal of that chat-up line is to get the girl or the guy talking and laughing, and to help you stand out from the rest of the crowd. Some sexy pick-up line inspiration: 63.”When I was born I had 2 choices: One was to have perfect memory and the other was to have a huge penis.
Asking him about his interests will get him, well, interested in you. Also, by telling him "I have no idea if we would get along," you're subtly challenging him to prove that you would, which drives him to please you. Most guys are just looking for an excuse to be invited to speak to you, and now you've allowed him take the lead.
Men feel safe and more open when they know that the woman they're talking to approves of their passion for a particular band/book/cereal.
Being specific, for example—the high percentage of people responding positively to compliments about glasses says that people want to be noticed in particular ways.
Canned lines are easy to spot from a mile away, but if you like someone's killer frames they know you paid attention.