It is always possible — confusing, but possible — that someone for real wants to be your friend. Here’s how you know: Hanging out: If they make plans Friday for Friday, because , you know?Dating: If they make plans Tuesday for Friday, because in their love-struck eyes, you are worth keeping a calendar for.I love sex and love the female body.""I was looking for friendship and sex. Largely never thought I'd find a wife and the idea of sex without the emotional component of intimacy never worked out for me.""Any of the above is a treasure.I enjoy sex, but I don't spend most of my time with other people having it. I eventually married my best friend.""I'm not looking for anything per se. A wife, ultimately, but casual sex is nice and so is friendship.""Friend.He wanted to take things slow, get to know me, actually date me and see where, if anywhere, we ended up. You’re just going to stand there all delicious, looking at me in all my fineness and tell me that we can’t rip each other’s clothes off right now? Now while my hormones were screaming bloody murder, my mind had to agree. I must admit this space is very new and very awkward.
The result is she’s dancing around an impenetrable door-to-more that will never open.
I'm very sexual, so I'd want to know that sex was a good possibility. I wouldn't say "wife," because I'm not looking to get married. Looking for a wife seems like jumping way way too far into the future and not focusing on the present and finding happiness in current friendships and relationships.
I'm also not looking for sex for somewhat similar reasons although in that case I have a hard time building trust due to past traumas.""A friend, first and foremost.
It feels like the guy is having his cake and eating it too, but isn’t just the sex-cake of yore; it’s also the feelings-cake of today.
It’s , but the milk is blowjobs as well as talking about his life and his feelings and giving him supportive responses and equal parts adoration in return. And most importantly, there’s zero obligation on either part, only it feels like there’s too much going on for there not to be. (And shitty.)Dating, as fraught as it is to do a dance of courtship, at least used to be something like layaway, in that it came with the possibility of something more committed down the road if both parties agreed.