Either online dating was bullsh** or I was missing something. Then, all of a sudden — Synergy, in general, may be defined as two or more things working together to produce a kick-ass result not independently obtainable.
I started experimenting with each part of my online dating, starting with my username, my photos, profile and last the emails. It’s just common sense when you think about it, I mean…
On my fourth or fifth date arranged through OKCupid I met my current boyfriend, who happens to be the most communicative, fun, and kind person I’ve met, online or off.
I’ll spare you the gush-fest; suffice it to say we’re an awesome match.
• About the Author: Who Is This Radio Wright Guy Anyway?
• Resources Like most guys, I didn’t put much thought into my username when I first started with online dating. It’s just something I quickly selected when I first signed up to the dating site. My results were terrible: No emails, No responses, No love.
I’m way cooler than my geeky friends and way geekier than my cool friends. I’m currently helping businesses design websites to get more customers. I’m very laid back, fun, and easy to get along with.
I have a lot of really interesting friends who make my life all that much better.
Much more appealing were earnest self-depictions or vague, consciously nonsensical noun mish-mashes.
Some guys think they need to have a funny online dating profile. So start out with something that makes it look like you’re already friends… You’re looking to show her that you’re confident, enjoying life, picky, and fun.
I just want them to get attracted and curious and email me. You want your profile to be fun and conversational.
If you want step-by-step info about how to use online dating to grow your dating life far beyond what it is now, read and apply.
) • Create Your Own Username • Step 1: Brainstorming Keywords • Step 2: Combining Keywords Into Usernames • The Username Worksheet • What’s Next?